“If slaughterhouses had glass walls, everyone would be a vegetarian.”
Sir Paul McCartney
Carmen’s own story
The dream of a child
“From when I was a child I was always drawing.
As I love animals I drew pictures of me living on a farm surrounded by many happy farm animals, all happily living in peace together. This was my ideal future, heavily supported by the sweet pictures of happy farm animals in my children’s books and on children’s TV programs.
One day this dream was completely shattered when I learned how animals were treated in reality.
When I learned:
That happy farms don’t exist anymore but have changed to intensive farming.
That most farm animals never see any daylight.
That newly born calfs are immediately taken away from their mothers, causing a lot of suffering for both.
That chickens are piled up in small cages in battery farming.
That sows are chained and cannot even turn or stand up.
Most farm animals are anxious, suffer from stress, and are used up to the max.
Most of them enter the unknown and scary outside world for the first time when they are thrown into a truck, to take the long and fearful ride – without food or water – to the slaughterhouse.
There they experience unimaginable mortal fear hearing the screams and smelling the fear of the other animals
being slaughtered and waiting for slaughter…
I clearly remember that I felt so incredibly mislead by the adults when I found out about this!
Buddhism brought an even deeper meaning to being vegetarian
Not eating meat aquired a much deeper meaning when I became a buddhist practitioner because of the concepts
of karma and mind.
I learned that all sentient beings want the same as us: to not suffer and be happy.
I learned that each being has a mind and feelings like we have.
Have you ever meditated on what it would feel like being treated as a machine-animal in factory farming?
Or exchange yourself for a lobster that is thrown alive into boiling water. Remember how a single finger, burned from a steaming hot pan, can hurt for days, and now imagine how your whole body would feel -the enormous pain and suffering- and you be desperate to get out – but you couldn’t get out!
You would go through searing hell for many long minutes…
I always think it’s a pity that lobsters aren’t able to scream their lungs out, because maybe that would make us more aware when we do such a thing. (And should you still want to kill a lobster: you can instantly kill the being by a quick stab in the neck before throwing it into boiling water. How would you rather come to an end?).
So from ‘not eating meat’ it expanded into ‘not hurting animals’ as well; and ‘not killing insects and flies at my convenience’ anymore. Because seriously, who am I to point at an animal and say ‘You should die!!’
I believe that all lives are precious and that animals should live out the natural course of their lives in peace (and hopefully gain a higher rebirth).
These days I cannot imagine ever eating meat again (in this life as well as in future lives), I strongly feel that this karmic seed has completely left my system.
I’ve been a vegetarian for more than 2/3rds of my life and I can say I’m very healthy and happy. It feels very natural to not eat fellow sentient beings and I’m glad I’ve been able to save many beings up until now.
Leaning more towards a vegan diet
Lately both my sister and I have been moving more and more towards eating vegan.
The vegan diet takes all the above one step further by swearing off all animal products, including eggs and dairy.
It’s a very slow progress for me as I still have the craving for dairy products (being a Dutch girl I’m especially ‘addicted’ to cheese…).
But I do begin to see more clearly how people exploit animals to the max, and it disturbs me more and more.
Think for example of dairy cows that are constantly made pregnant, their newly-borns taken away from them immediately, and after a life of literally being ‘milked out’ (and isn’t it strange that WE are drinking the milk instead of their calfs?) they are relentlessly killed.
Interested to learn more?
Up for a challenge?
Online you will find many websites where you can opt in for a vegetarian challenge or a vegan challenge where you can challenge yourself for 30 days into a new and healthy diet and you are coached with words and tasty recipes.
…Just try it!